Run For Our Lives

I’ve referenced titling these gems on occasion here, that sometimes it’s harder to come up with a title than it is the subject. Well, this one was easy enough to title, since my focus is on the ongoing efforts of my son and daughter-in-law to promote awareness, and prevention, of firefighter suicide. For those of you that haven’t been following along, Run For Our Lives is the fundraising effort they’ve started since Ryan “went public” with his PTSD. He’ll be raising money by running one kilometer for every firefighter to die by suicide in 2019. As compiled by Firefighter Behavioral Health Alliance that number is 130. So on May 30, 2020 he’ll take off on a run of 130 km (80.7 miles). The target of this fundraising effort is Illinois Firefighter Peer Support Group which is the organization Danielle reached out to for help as Ryan sank deeper into the depths of his PTSD. Their support, by my son’s own admission, helped prevent him from becoming a statistic.

The method for meeting the goal they’ve set, raising $10,000.00 for ILFFPS, is called a virtual run. As I said, Ryan will be doing his run on May 30, 2020, however the virtual run will take place beginning February 1st and must be completed by May 30th. So you can run as much or as little each day until you hit the 130 kilometer mark. In case I’ve left something out, or caused you confusion about how this works, here’s a short video explaining the virtual run –

I don’t think the video mentioned the registration fee, although I know it’s on the form (link to follow), but the cost is $130.00. Of this amount, $100.00 will go to Illinois Firefighter Peer Support to assist them as they work to support Fire and EMS personnel in crisis. Let me take a minute here to say I recognize this post is already link intensive, but there’s a lot of information to share, and it’s important that this stuff gets out there accurately. Also I’m not done linking stuff so…

For instance, late last week the Chicago Tribune put up this story about Ryan and Danielle and their path through PTSD to this point. It’s been picked up by numerous outlets and is helping spread the word that we need to stop stigmatizing PTSD and instead need to address it for what it is, a fact of life for many people, but one that need not destroy lives. I feel like I need to say something here, not that I’ve been shy about saying it to anyone at any time, but I feel like it needs to come out again. I’m incredibly proud of both Ryan and Danielle for what they’ve gone through, what they’re going through and dealing with what lies ahead of them. This obviously hasn’t been easy for either of them, but they’ve responded to the challenge placed in their lives wonderfully. I also want to acknowledge the incredible outpouring of support they’ve received to this point from so many people, thanks for that.

I think I’m down to one last link for this post but it is likely the most important one, the registration form for anyone that wants to take part in the virtual run. It’s a Google document so it should be easy for even the most computer illiterate among us to fill out and submit and, as I mentioned above, the money raised is going to an incredibly worthwhile cause. Clicking on this link will take you to the document and following the instructions there will get you registered. If you’ve already registered, thank you! If you haven’t please consider signing up today. Together we can make a difference. I know that sounds cheesy, but it’s the truth.

This picture was taken by Danielle and it is, to me anyway, one of the most powerful pictures I’ve seen in some time. Let’s hope through our efforts, no one on this job has to feel this sense of being overwhelmed again. Thanks.

Peace.